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It feels like we JUST got married. We just can’t believe we survived one whole year! When you think about it, its very surreal. Time has definitely flown by, and while there were times that were bad, there were times that were really good. A lot can happen in a year; and it makes the year zoom by before you can blink!
So, apparently, there are certain “gifts” that are suppose to be given to each other on anniversaries. While we tend to shy from tradition, we thought it would be rather amusing to see what “tradition” says. For the record, Tradition doesn’t make sense!
Allow us to explain:
They say you should give Paper for the 1st anniversary. So, does paper mean MONEY? Because money is always good! We purchased airline tickets for each other, does that count? Or is it literal, like stationary (Sandra- does anyone actually use Stationary anymore? Maybe teachers do, but I normally just email or text message or send a hallmark card…)?
Modern one-year anniversary gifts include Clocks. Now why the hell would we want to give each other a clock? It would be an insult, almost to say that one of us is always late (Joey- Cough, Cough Sandra that means you. You are never ready on time! Two hours to get ready for anything!) Perhaps a watch… than that would be something we would understand (Joey- I would like a Movado please.) But give each other a clock? Who comes up with this shit?
Apparently, Henry Van Dyke did. He wrote “For those who love, time is eternity.” Now that’s sweet! That would be something to inscribe on the back of a WATCH. Not a clock.
What about Jewelry? Well, Gold Jewelry is traditional, as well as Pearls and Peridot.
Sandra- What, no diamonds?! Ok, being that I am all about things big and shiny, I would like to openly discuss this.
I think that Peridot is actually kind of pretty depending on the shade. Most of time the stones are emerald-ish hue, but not to be confused with an Emerald. Think more of an olive green color. Regardless, it’s still really stunning.
As for pearls, one name comes to my mind: Mikimoto. I just love the way that name slides off my tongue; “Mikimoto! Mikimoto!” If I were to do pearls, I would probably prefer colored pearls, like Black or I would do Pearls and gemstones together.
As for gold, being that Gold is so valuable right now, it would be an investment that’s for sure. However, I really prefer white gold (and platinum over white gold) to yellow gold. Plus, not to mention, there has been a new Rose Gold trend in the gold industry.
So, I got an idea; what if you combined Peridot and Pearl together to make a pendant or ring in a white gold setting! There, now that’s a nice one-year anniversary gift lol. Well, if this isn’t a hint for a special piece of jewelry, I don’t know what is. And Joey is going to read this and laugh. Whatever, I can dream.
Oh, and did you know that there are anniversary colors? Neither did we! Gold and yellow are the traditional anniversary colors. (Joey- all I can think about is that Austin Powers Movie, the 3rd one, where the Gold Member character kept saying, “I love GOLD.” I’ll just paint myself Gold and give myself to Sandra. That solves everything!)
And finally, if you want to give flowers on your 1st anniversary, they suggest Orange Blossom or Pansy. Pansy comes from the French world pensée, which means thought or remembrance. An Orange Blossom is symbolic of marriage, eternal love and fertility.
Announcement: Do not give us Orange Blossom. We are not ready for children yet. Thank you. We have some traveling to do first. Vegas? Yes please. Ibiza? Sure, why not!?
So some of things we are suppose to do on our 1st anniversary include eating the top layer from our wedding cake. We saved the top layer, and we plan on attempting to eat a fork full of it. And thats it. It probably has freezer burn and to be honest with you, we fear the after affects of eating something a year old that contains dairy. Whoever came up with that obviously was looking for an excuse to get sick. (Joey- Babe, there’s the traditional color yellow! From the freezer burnt butter cream icing! HAHAHAHAHA!)
We may just take the suggestion of some very awesome friends of ours and watch our wedding video. Whenever we watch it, we always have a good laugh, especially towards the end when our guests are beyond their sober points. Yes, you know whom you are and you were VERY lucky they cut that out of the show. You must have a suburb Guardian Angel. Regardless, piss us off and the whole world will see the “Pulp Fiction” dance. Insert evil laugh here: “Mwah ha ha ha!”
Well, HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO US! Thank you to all of our fans and readers for reading our blogs and watching the show. We hope you have enjoyed our antics, and we will have plenty more where that came from. Now if you will excuse us, we have some celebrating to do in St.Lucia!
Check back in a 3 weeks for a BRAND NEW “Joey and Sandra’s Guide to Where to Go and What to Do in…” It’s going to be a good one!
Yay! Our wedding! That was the best day of our lives!!!
Ok, so we will be officially husband and wife for 6 months on Christmas Day… and it’s been a whirl wind of a year. 2011 will be an even bigger year (hopefully…) and all we can say is “Good bye 2010!” Wedding planning is hard enough… a few of our closest friends got engaged this past year, and we plan on passing them down all the knowledge we got from planning… and we’ll share that with you as well…if you want…
I loved our wedding. I really did. There was no stress, no fighting, no drama; just perfection in my book.
Joey and I never had a budget. We are the type of people that if we want something, we make it work. We weren’t looking for a small celebration either; we both come from large families, and have a lot of friends, and found it crucial to make sure we had a wedding that topped out engagement party.
When we got engaged, we decided right off the bat that we wanted an extravagant event, making sure it was formal and that every detail was finely tuned to our style and way of living. We weren’t settling for second best, and we knew that we had to sacrifice a lot of things to get there (for instance, my shoe addiction…). But we made it. And as it turns out, we really loved our wedding. You get married once hopefully, and you want to do it right. We knew we didn’t have a fairy godmother to grant us a wedding and we knew that if we were going to have a “wedding to remember” than we would have to really pour our hearts and souls into planning. And that’s what we did. And the end result was a platinum wedding worthy of wedding books.
We didn’t necessarily have a theme per say; we were influenced by the 1940’s and 1950’s. I wanted to channel Old Hollywood Glamour and bring in details that would “ring-a-bell” and pay homage to such a beautiful era in fashion. I didn’t want a costume party; just elegant, glamorous, and above all mix modern tradition with old. And of course, we wanted to respect our heritage and incorporate proper Italian traditions. Nothing cliché and definitely nothing to get any Italian upset; Just sophistication.
I loved everything about our wedding; right down to the invites with peacock feathers. There was so much attention to detail… and it made a difference in my mind. It was literally a dream come true…
My workout and diet completely changed when it came to the wedding. I literally cut out all sweets, carbs, salt and ate protein and salad for 2 months straight. I busted my ass at the gym, and I trained like I was in a competition. Obsessed? You better believe it. My dress was beautiful but it tortured me! But it was the motivation I needed. I think I’m going to teach a Bridal Boot camp class. Get brides everywhere to be in top notch shape for their big day. By the way I love how my back looks! And did I mention my BUTT!!! J I actually felt confident that day.
Watching the episode last night made me cry a little too…but in a good way. Oh it breaks my heart to see my daddy cry. He was happy but it must be so hard to let your little girl go. I’m the first born! My mother and father couldn’t have been prouder that day. And I’m not just saying that either. I think parents go through an emotional change when their child gets engaged. It’s like they are closing a chapter in their book and opening a new one. My daddy is still one of the major guys in my life. Joey and my father get along so well and I am so grateful they do. I’ll always be daddy’s princess…
Seeing Joey for the first time gave me butterflies. He looked amazing in his tuxedo. By the way, who got picked up in the Bentley? Me! And who won the vest color war? ME! I love you Joey… I win!
We took pictures at Old Westbury Gardens, and we saw each other before the wedding so this way pictures could be done. We made it very special. Even though someone who shall remain nameless made Joey turn around before we were in position… I know who you are lol…
Joey loved my dress and how it looked on me. He wasn’t showing off either. He still tells me how amazing I looked. He makes me feel so beautiful…
The ceremony was perfect. Joey and I knew we needed to have a beach wedding because the beach is our sanctuary. It’s our church, where we go to think, pray and its serenity. The Surf Club had the ideal area for our ceremony to take place. The ceremony was the hardest part of our day. We were standing in front of 200+ people, committing our love and faithfulness to each other. So I wouldn’t cry, and I so would have love for you to have seen this, Joey kept sticking his tongue out at me and making faces so I would smile. Joey loves my smile, and tells me all the time. I noticed when I am nervous I have this laugh that makes it so obvious. At one point though, the tears couldn’t stop, and it was pure emotion as I said my vows to him.
You have no idea how happy we were that the hard part was over and that the party could begin! We knocked out all the pictures (we have about 2400 pictures by the way) and enjoyed the cocktail party. But we didn’t get to eat! We decided to greet everyone instead. And look at the ice and cheese sculptures, and ice luges!
I LOVED THE CHEESE SCULPTURE! It was wax and cheese and it was so different. We had carved watermelons and ice sculptured mermaids but THE CHEESE MERMAID took the prize!
So our 1940’s old Hollywood Glamour meets the Godfather inspired wedding went off without any drama, or problems or headaches. The reception was beautiful and our guest had the best time (I can say that truthfully because of the endless phone calls we received!). Joey gave me the best wedding ever, and literally he treats me so well. We couldn’t be happier with the way our wedding turned out. It was the best day of our lives!
There’s nothing like a Joey and Sandra party. We throw amazing, memorable bashes, not to be cocky. It’s going to be hard to top this one. I’m turning 30 in 2 years… Joey…so what do you think lol?
Well the episode finally came that we all have been waiting for. I was very happy that you actually seen how I really am and wasn’t portrayed as the “asshole”. LOL. Unfortunately you couldn’t get to see the extravagant of what our wedding was really about. So over time we will be adding photos as well as clips from our wedding day.
It’s funny. My cousin just got engaged about a month ago. I gave him the option of 2 one way tickets for him and me to go to Fiji or suffer like I did through this process. I guess Sandra and I are going to have to use the tickets. I guess he likes torture. Just kidding; but no really I did say it to him.
The morning of the wedding I was feeling fine, I wasn’t feeling nervous or anything. I was just anxious to meet up with Sandra and see her for the first time. So after some pictures with guys, a few beers to take the edge off, we made our way over to Old Westbury Gardens.
Sure enough I got screwed out of the Bentley- Thanks to my wedding planner (Francesca, thank you, love you!)-
When we got there, one of my slightly buzzed groomsman made a comment which made me turn around and saw Sandra quickly when she was walking over when I wasn’t suppose to. You’re a dumb ass bro!
When I saw her I couldn’t believe how amazing she looked in that dress and wanted to “skip the wedding and go to the honeymoon” lol. She was absolutely gorgeous and that’s when I realized “Holy shit I’m getting friggin’ married!”
So after all the pictures, we made our way to the Surf Club, up in New Rochelle. We were greeted with cocktails and they made us feel like Royalty. As we went into the bridal suite, I started becoming very antsy. Waiting for the ceremony felt like the day was just slowing down, and I just wanted to get the ceremony over with.
Finally, our Italian singer, Allesandro came to sing Sandra’s entrance, which unfortunately you didn’t get to hear, probably because they didn’t have a mic on him, so that’s why there was the traditional “here comes the bride” music.
During the ceremony, I noticed Sandra was trying to hold tears, so I started making facing at her and sticking my tongue at her to make her laugh, which thank God it wasn’t shown, but I didn’t want her to ruin her makeup. I guess I’m not so bad after all people
So after all is said and done, we go to the cocktail hour. I was hoping that I would have been able to enjoy the cocktail hour with my guest, since we got the pictures done quickly after the ceremony. Every time I went to get some food, guest would come up to us. So we decided to forget about cocktail hour and greet our guest. Which I was a little disappointed about considering the amount of food and different stations we had.
This brings us now to our reception. Only I get called in for the first time with my wife and walk through our bridal party and get tapped in the balls by every groomsman I had! Thanks guys! Paybacks a bitch! From there on we had a great reception, between the music, the Italian Singer, the food, the liquor; we made that night very memorable. Our guests still talk about it. All the extravagant details we added to make this wedding truly amazing. We even had a Venetian hour that topped it off with fireworks, and every dessert you could think of.
This was definitely one night I wouldn’t change for the world. Then we honeymooned in Hawaii for 2 weeks, which was the perfect ending to our wedding trauma.
If I had to give anybody advice that was thinking about getting married, I would say “DON’T DO IT!” :-) (Sorry had to say it)
We just wanted to say thank you to all of our fans for your support and positive feedback. I know a lot people out there completely think of me a different way, but hopefully, seeing the real me will help change your mind.
You haven’t seen the last of Joey and Sandra. Keep tabs on www.JoeyandSandra.com to find out about our appearances, as well as updates, pictures and videos on our lives. 2011 is going to be a VERY good year.
PS… write to VH1 and tell them who you REALLY Love (me). You can also let them know that you want to see us in our very own show. Who knows, maybe you can see us going through the baby process next…
Sandra- Kiss my ass Joe!
The season is half way over!! Episode 5 is done!
Wow, the editors really need to either catch up on sleep or something; Johnny is Friggin’ Joey now lol. Did anyone else catch that? Hey Meatballs, want to trade places for a day? I’ll make the meatballs, you eat Sandra’s cooking- good luck with that one
Don’t forget to check out the bonus clips on VH1.com! There’s actually some very amusing stuff on there! Over the past few weeks, we have taken over the bonus clips department it seems….
Ohhhhhhh yeaaaaaa! I love the Surf Club!!! Our Hall is amazing! Ohmigod everything about the Surf Club blows me away; the grand ballroom, the menu, the scenery, the staff, the elegance EVERYTHING! It’s so elegant and so glamorous! We went to a few other halls while shopping around, but the Surf Club was by far the best hall we have ever been to. Aww and Jamie Gizzo is a great Banquet Manager! We couldn’t have asked for a better person to work with! How gorgeous does the venue look on camera! I’m going to walk down the stairs to the beach, and be married on the beach! I’m having a wedding worthy of an Italian movie! That place gives me GOOSEBUMPS! I love the Surf Club and I’m so happy Joey and I found it! Oh it’s perfect! Joey is giving me a wedding I could only dream of!
How much do you love the Steps!!! What a grand entrance! I literally wore a pencil skirt because my dress is tight around my knees and I needed to make sure I wasn’t going to kill myself. And I went down them perfectly! I can’t wait!!!
Brides: YOU’RE ALLOWED TO BE EXCITED ABOUT YOUR WEDDING AND ALL THE DETAILS!!! ANYONE WHO BEGS TO DIFFER IS JEALOUS!
I’m having a fantasy wedding!!!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!
How about Joe and his Brother huh? I’ll have you know that Joe’s brothers are a HUGE part of his life. They have a great bond. It’s really cool. Frankie is the one who torments the ever living crap out of me, but that’s ok because I do dish it right back. I don’t just sit there and take it. Ask him, he’ll tell you…
So my chicken recipe was from a health magazine. Hence the panko bread crumbs. But you know what, although I was angry about Joey ordering the pizza, you have to admit that’s pretty funny. What a sneaky guy! I need to say this one last time… I will never be a great cook. Average cook maybe. Not great. Cooks like my grandma, Joey’s mother, and cooks like Giada are GREAT… I’m average. And I am cool with it. I bake. I posted that on our fan page last week. But cooking is difficult because I’m too concern with calories and fat. I’ll leave the good cooking to the real cooks.
Thanks for the love everyone! Happy Holidays!